Spinning
Life. Lately. Has been crazy. Crazy and awesome, and really quite crazy. The bits and pieces are manageable, but altogether it’s almost too much to process, which means it’s challenging to write...
View ArticleConTuesday! Monogamish
Monogamy makes sense to me. I think it works beautifully for some people, and that it is absolutely a valid lifestyle choice. Monogamy as the default, not so much. I think that’s why I get a lot of...
View ArticleSnapshot
“I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend and they’re both married, but not to each other,” I told a friend last night. Out loud. And then I realized I hadn’t said that anywhere until that moment, really....
View ArticleBleeding through
In my brief time as a person practicing polyamory, I’ve witnessed the bliss many poly people seem to feel when they have two or more of their loves close by, getting along and perhaps even game for...
View ArticleDon’t call it a comeback.
I’ve decided I miss the actual blogging part of having a sex blog. To wit, I miss writing about my love life and my ideologies regarding boning. And telling you guys what I masturbate with. And to. And...
View ArticleThings being what they are
ConTuesday, whom I think of not as anything I do myself so much as a willful little monkey creature, decided to take a holiday sabbatical. Of course, besides Groundhog Day, Twelfth Night is the only...
View ArticleConTuesday! Then we invented cheating.
It’s a rare person who pair-bonds only once in their entire life, and probably even rarer to have only one sexual partner. This is probably somehow connected to the fact that we’re more closely related...
View ArticlePolynormativity and me.
I recently found this article on the problem with polynormativity, and it brought to the surface a lot of challenges with polyamory that have come up for me recently. A friend told me several months...
View ArticleA short and sketchy study in double standards
Oren Regardie will be the first to admit that he’s lucky. And, at least by many people’s standards, he is pretty damn lucky. Let’s look at this: he is married to Poppy, who’s one of those women men...
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